How Am I Doing?

I’m unbelievably, unapologetically fantastic!

Because fifty years ago, I was an unwanted baby—passed between unwed mothers outside a U.S. military base in Korea.

Forty years ago, I was a bad kid no school wanted. Eleven different schools kicked me out.

Thirty years ago, I was broke and married—peddling vacuums door-to-door while my wife changed diapers at a daycare.

Twenty years ago, I quit my job. Enlisted in the Army. A year later, I was in Baghdad—sure my number was up.

Ten years ago, I was unemployed, broke again, and out of options. So I bought a company—begged, borrowed, and stole every penny I could and put everything on the line.

And today?

Today, I wake up with a full heart, a full house, and full control over how I spend my time.

What changed?

  • I stopped following other people’s playbooks.
  • I stopped letting feelings dictate decisions.
  • I stopped sacrificing the long game for short-term noise.
  • I started executing the next necessary step.
  • I started showing up for the mission—not the mood.

So when someone asks, “How are you doing?” I answer with conviction:

I’m fan-fucking-tastic!

Because how you answer matters.

That answer didn’t come easy. It came from decades of scars, chaos, and choosing to show up when it would’ve been easier to walk away.

If you want to know what shaped it — here’s I Live It